Palm Springs gay resorts: the 10 best hotels to stay in gay Palm Springs

First up to grab your attention is The Hacienda at Warm Sands, a dreamy gay resort landscaped in palms and backed by the San Jacinto mountains where clothing is optional and relaxation guaranteed. The Hacienda Palm Springs has a staff to guest ratio of 1:1 meaning that there’ll always be someone at your beck and call, for cocktails, snacks and birthday requests at will. Besides the view, The Hacienda lies in proximity to the desert and a number of the region’s best national parks, including stargazing paradise Joshua Tree National Park.

Another of the best gay resorts Palm Springs where you can get your kit off is the Santiago Resort, a mid-century modernist build right at the foot of the San Jacinto mountains within gated grounds. Every inch of the space breathes tranquillity, across the deluxe suites, steaming outside spa and sleek lounge areas dressed with cacti, palm trees and peachy sunset views. The pool here is the largest heated pool in Palm Springs, allowing for splashing about at any time of year before enjoying complimentary lunches or rummaging through the free 24-hour pantry. Make sure you come hungry for dinner at El Mirasol however to best enjoy traditional Mexican fare and margaritas.

For a 5-star weekend in Southern California, Parker Palm Springs has it all. Just minutes from the city centre, you’ll get to rest up around a choice of three saltwater pools before popping to the spa alongside celebrity clientele. Rooted in 1950s postmodern glamour, Parker Palm Springs is an ‘it’ spot for the rich and famous seeking solitude; the mid-century villas here have even been graced by the likes of Brad Pitt and Leo DiCaprio! Besides sniffing the sheets, distract yourself on the 13-acre grounds by playing croquet, tennis and ping-pong, or cycling up an appetite before lunch at Norma’s or dinner at the dimly lit Mister Parker’s restaurant.

For travellers seeking a serene retreat with an emphasis on wellness and luxury, Sensei Porcupine Creek delivers an extraordinary experience. Nestled in the foothills of Rancho Mirage, this private estate has been transformed into an exclusive wellness retreat, perfect for those seeking rejuvenation in opulent surroundings. The property features beautifully designed villas and casitas, blending modern sophistication with natural tranquillity. With a world-class spa, guided yoga, meditation, and bespoke fitness programmes, it’s tailored to guests who value both luxury and wellbeing. The on-site Sensei by Nobu restaurant offers a culinary experience that integrates healthful, flavourful cuisine with a touch of indulgence. Though the retreat itself feels secluded, it’s just a short drive from Palm Springs’ vibrant gay nightlife, including hotspots along Palm Canyon Drive. Sensei Porcupine Creek’s exclusivity, elegant design, and commitment to wellness make it one of the most luxurious resorts in Palm Springs for LGBTQ travellers.

A true epitome of luxury, The Ritz-Carlton, Rancho Mirage offers breathtaking views of the Coachella Valley from its elevated desert perch. This five-star property is perfect for those seeking high-end pampering, with its expansive spa offering indigenous-inspired treatments, serene infinity pools, and luxurious cabanas for the ultimate relaxation. Rooms and suites are decorated in neutral tones with sleek, modern furnishings, providing a chic and tranquil atmosphere. The hotel’s location, just outside Palm Springs, offers a peaceful escape while still being close to the area’s gay-friendly nightlife, including bars and lounges just a short drive away. The Ritz-Carlton has garnered a reputation for being inclusive and LGBTQ-welcoming, offering discreet luxury and a personalised experience for discerning gay travellers. Fine dining at The Edge Steakhouse with its stunning valley views only adds to the allure of this luxury Palm Springs hotel.

A recent addition to Palm Springs’ luxury hotel scene, Thompson Palm Springs is a contemporary retreat set in the heart of downtown, perfectly positioned for those wanting to explore the city’s renowned gay scene. Just steps away from the vibrant Palm Canyon Drive, this stylish property offers easy access to top gay clubs, bars, and restaurants. The hotel’s aesthetic is a nod to mid-century modern design, with sleek lines, minimalist interiors, and artful touches that appeal to the fashion-forward luxury traveller. Relax by the rooftop pool, which offers panoramic views of the San Jacinto Mountains, or dine at the upscale Mediterranean-inspired restaurant, which provides fresh, seasonal cuisine. Thompson Palm Springs perfectly balances urban sophistication with the laid-back charm that Palm Springs is known for, making it a prime choice for those seeking a stylish stay near the heart of the city’s gay attractions.

Set amidst four acres of lush gardens, Avalon Hotel & Bungalows offers an intimate and upscale hideaway just minutes from the bustling gay nightlife of Palm Springs. With Spanish Revival architecture, the property exudes old Hollywood glamour, perfect for those seeking both elegance and seclusion. The 70 guest rooms, suites, and private bungalows are tastefully decorated in monochrome tones, with luxurious linens and vintage-inspired furnishings. Avalon’s three sparkling pools, full-service spa, and al fresco dining at Chi Chi restaurant create a relaxed yet sophisticated atmosphere. The hotel is a short walk to the vibrant gay bars and clubs of downtown, yet feels like a private oasis where guests can unwind. Known for its LGBTQ inclusivity, Avalon Hotel & Bungalows is ideal for those wanting a blend of luxury, privacy, and proximity to Palm Springs’ best gay-friendly spots.

A bonus on our Palm springs resorts gay guide is Dry Heat Resorts, getting us hot under the collar with its desert-side selection of private homes and condos in mid-century modern stylings. Rent short-term or by the month, getting better value the longer you stay as well as more time to immerse yourself in the diverse Coachella Valley community through golfing meets and celebrity spotting tours in Old Las Palmas.