Our 7 favourite places to experience gay Italy

Located to the southeast in the heel of Italy’s boot, Puglia is a popular beachside escape boasting UNESCO sites, wartime history and delectable regional food all within picture-perfect surroundings. The best beaches in Puglia cater to all orientations and it can be hard to distinguish between gay and straight locals. All come tanned and scantily dressed, treating the beach as nature’s catwalk and messing with our usually reliable gaydar. For your best chance at meeting like-minded people, venture to the southern part of Puglia known as Salento. Here you’ll find some of the best gay hangouts, with the ultimate gay beach Italy within a short ride of Gallipoli. To get your full kit off in good gay company, travel one hour north to D’Ayala nudist beach.

Besides the region’s beautiful beaches, you’ll find a bohemian vibe touting authentic culture, top-notch cuisine and a growing LGBTQ community, particularly within cities such as Gallipoli and Taranto. Revert to a better, simpler time in the old town of Gallipoli. Its name translates to ‘beautiful city’ and that’s exactly what you grow to expect soon after arriving on the Salento peninsula. Connected to the mainland by a 17th-century bridge and walled in by fortifications built in the Middle Ages, Puglia is precious land holding both turquoise-lapped beaches and important national history.

Public transport in the region can be lacking which is why we recommend hiring a car during your stay. That way you’ll be able to veer off the beaten track and discover the hidden cultural gems in and around small towns including Alberobello, Lecce, Ostuni, Otranto and Polignano a Mare.

For an unforgettable stay in Puglia, head to Rocco Forte Masseria Torre Maizza, a boutique haven that blends Italian charm with modern luxury. Set in the heart of the Apulian countryside, this whitewashed farmhouse is surrounded by olive groves and offers an 18-hole golf course, a serene pool, and access to private beaches. The hotel’s chic design and gourmet restaurants make it ideal for gay travellers who value both tranquillity and style. Nearby, visit the stunning beaches of Torre Canne or explore the historic town of Ostuni.

If you prefer a more secluded retreat, Masseria San Domenico offers a quintessentially luxurious Apulian experience. This adults-only resort is perfect for those seeking total relaxation, with its own private beach, a thalassotherapy spa, and a restaurant serving locally sourced dishes. The minimalist décor complements the surrounding natural beauty, and it’s a short drive from the gay-friendly beach clubs of Torre Guaceto.

For a lively yet luxurious experience, Borgo Egnazia blends traditional architecture with modern elegance. The sprawling resort offers everything from private villas to a world-class spa, and it’s just a stone’s throw from the gay-friendly nightlife of Savelletri. Visit nearby Polignano a Mare for a taste of local culture and dramatic cliffside views.

A hilltop coastal town in the otherwise conservative region of Sicily, Taormina will delight visitors with warm hospitality and fair weather amid protected natural surroundings that lay embedded with ancient ruins. Known as ‘the Pearl of the Mediterranean’ from its elevated position overlooking Mount Etna and the gulf, Taormina Italy is the perfect place to take it easy. Walk with ease through town, passing by the charming shopping streets of Corso Umberto and dining on Sicilian specialities in any of the town’s restaurants, before eventually meeting popular beach spots such as Giardini Naxos and Mazzarò. Isola Bella meanwhile, a protected oasis with crystal-clear lake waters, offers a fun alternative swim spot at the foot of the town.

By day, Taormina keeps us busy with outpost viewpoints in nature peppered with medieval-style architecture and ornate churches showcasing the town’s unique cultural history. Roman and Greek ruins attract many to the area but it is the laid-back atmosphere that keeps us here. At night, the town becomes all the more gay-friendly, particularly at gay bars like Shatulle where both locals and international gather in good company. While gay-run businesses are few and far between, most nightlife in the town is to be considered gay-friendly, with Isoco Guest House holding a great reputation among the LGBTQ+ community.

A stay at San Domenico Palace, a Four Seasons Hotel, promises nothing short of cinematic grandeur—literally. As the iconic filming location for the second season of The White Lotus, this cliffside retreat in Taormina offers views of Mount Etna and the Ionian Sea that are as dramatic as the show’s plot twists. Its luxurious suites, infinity pool, and Michelin-starred dining offer an extraordinary escape for sophisticated gay travellers. The property is within easy reach of Isola Bella beach, known for its crystal-clear waters and proximity to Taormina’s gay nightlife.

For those seeking classic Italian opulence, Grand Hotel Timeo, A Belmond Hotel offers unmatched views of the Greek Theatre and Taormina Bay. Its elegant gardens and iconic terraces have been a magnet for high-society travellers for decades. Just steps away from vibrant bars and restaurants, it’s the perfect base for exploring Taormina’s cultural and natural beauty.

Another excellent option is the Grand Hotel San Pietro Taormina, an intimate luxury hotel that blends Sicilian charm with modern amenities. Enjoy panoramic sea views from the infinity pool, or stroll to the bustling Corso Umberto for an evening of lively gay-friendly nightlife. For those seeking a day of beachside relaxation, the nearby Mazzarò Beach is a must-visit.

Ah, Rome. How could we not talk about her? So-called capital of the world where art, café culture and ancient history collide in spectacular style, Rome lays down some serious power play. Masculine presenting and tanned to perfection, the city and its people are hard not to crush on. As culture grows more liberal, the vibrancy of the gay community grows with it, allowing for a seductive mix of gay dance parties, saunas and cruising spots among the capital’s many cultural hotspots. Make time for St Peter’s Basilica, the Pantheon and the Trevi Fountain, all of which lie close to elegant plazas providing the perfect space for Rome’s classiest bars, restaurants and high-end boutiques. If you want to keep it casual, take a break with a leisurely slurp of espresso at a curbside café, or picnic in the many serene green spaces across town. A beach day is also an option while in Rome; simply travel southwest for epic sunset views on golden sand beaches, stopping at Ostia, Anzio, Sperlonga or wherever takes your fancy.

Get your introduction to Gay Rome by fanning out east from the Colosseum along Via San Giovanni, a social street lined with gay-friendly bars, clubs and restaurants. Align your visit with the summer-long Gay Village festival, one of the most important events in the city’s gay calendar which sees Parco del Ninfeo and surrounding neighbourhoods become overrun with LGBT street parties, live music, performance art, film screenings and more. On all other occasions, start off in any one of Rome’s highbrow cocktail bars and microbreweries, lowering the tone later on at an underground fetish party, wild gay club or good ol’ fashioned gay disco. Get to know gay travel Italy in more depth before you travel, starting with our Rome travel guide.

In the heart of the Eternal City, Rocco Forte Hotel De La Ville is an opulent retreat perched atop the Spanish Steps. This refined property exudes Italian glamour with its rooftop bar offering views of the entire city. Ideal for luxury gay travellers, it is steps away from designer boutiques and some of the best gay nightlife in Rome’s Testaccio district.

The exclusive Portrait Roma offers an intimate experience in the fashion-forward heart of Rome, just a short stroll from Via Condotti’s luxury shopping. Each suite feels like a private art gallery, with bespoke furnishings and photos of Italy’s golden age. Its discrete charm makes it a favourite among LGBTQ+ travellers seeking sophistication and privacy.

For a stay that combines elegance with contemporary flair, Umiltà 36 offers an urban sanctuary near the Trevi Fountain. The chic design and vibrant social spaces attract a cosmopolitan crowd, while the hotel’s proximity to Rome’s top cultural sites—such as the Vatican and the Pantheon—makes it ideal for explorers.

The iconic Grand Hotel Principe Di Piemonte in nearby Viareggio is the perfect base for exploring Torre del Lago, Italy’s premier gay beach destination. With an impressive rooftop pool and panoramic sea views, this historic hotel combines classic luxury with modern comfort. A short drive takes you to the lively gay beach at Marina di Torre del Lago, where summer parties and beach clubs are aplenty. After a day in the sun, return to the hotel’s Michelin-starred restaurant for a taste of Tuscan cuisine.

Model of the term ‘cosmopolitan city break’, Milan tops the lists of top gay Italy travel destinations, thanks to its status as the high-fashion capital of the world. More than simply a walking advertisement for Gucci, Fendi and Prada, Milan surprises first-time visitors with its raw creative energy and avant-garde culture. Home to the largest – not to mention the most glamorous – gay community in the country, Gay Milan offers a vibrant space for LGBTQ divas and fashionistas from all corners of the globe.

All angles in the city centre nod to some era of architecture; be it art nouveau around Corso Magenta, rationalism in Piazza San Babila or the futuristic skyline shaped by the likes of Zaha Hadid and César Pelli. Move slowly through the city and keep your sights upwards to best enjoy the city’s incredible sights (and look cool while doing so!), but when night comes around it’s time to let loose. While much of the city’s nightlife is gay-friendly, the clubs and bars around the Porta Venezia district are community outposts that host nightly gay-themed events. To find out about the next big gay event, pick up a free copy of Zerodue or Milano Pride magazines from stores and cafés around town, reading more about the best gay bars Milan has to offer with our full Milan travel guide.

Milan’s luxury scene is best experienced at Portrait Milano, a refined retreat nestled in the heart of the city’s fashion district. Housed in a former seminary, the hotel offers sleek, minimalist suites that reflect Milan’s chic aesthetic. With its proximity to Via Montenapoleone’s designer shops and the city’s vibrant LGBTQ+ nightlife in Porta Venezia, this is an ideal base for a gay-friendly Milanese getaway.

For timeless elegance, Park Hyatt Milano offers sophisticated luxury near the iconic Duomo. Its contemporary interiors blend effortlessly with traditional Italian charm, and the hotel’s fine dining and serene spa make it an oasis of calm in the bustling city. Just steps away from Milan’s most famous landmarks, this hotel is perfect for travellers who appreciate a mix of culture, art, and high fashion.

The Bulgari Hotel Milano combines glamour with serenity, set in a private garden just moments from Milan’s best galleries and boutiques. Its modern, minimalist design attracts a discerning clientele, while the on-site spa and Michelin-starred restaurant ensure a luxurious experience. Perfectly situated for exploring Milan’s queer-friendly art scene and vibrant nightlife.

One more stop, one more UNESCO World Heritage Site to tick off the bucket list. The entire 50 kilometre stretch of the Amalfi Coast running along the southern edge of the Sorrento Peninsula is listed by UNESCO and for good reason. All pastel hues and lemon-scented breeze, the Amalfi Coast will awaken the romantic within even the most grizzly of bears. The atmosphere is another reason to smile, as Amalfi locals are among some of Italy’s most easy-going. The region’s collection of small beaches can be jagged and sloping but that’s just part of Amalfi’s charm, making it easier to grab a private moment on the pebbles! The nearby port town of Salerno, while not a beach town, offers some stunning places to stay in proximity to Amalfi’s best bits.

Moving inland from the coast, you’ll find steep winding roads rising into hills hosting hotels and residences with panoramic views across Positano and Amalfi. Not the most walkable of areas, explore the best Amalfi coast towns with ease by hiring a car or boarding a boat tour, with the latter allowing for a salty breeze with unmatched views of Amalfi’s lemon groves, terraced vineyards and sheer cliffs from afar. Capri Island is another must-see just a short sail away from the mainland, bringing utmost sophistication and tranquillity to the high seas. Despite the gay community here being somewhat spread out leaving the party scene muted, the Gay Amalfi Coast shows itself in small nods of acceptance towards same-sex couples and offers romantic vacations for all. Consider visiting the nearby city of Naples or stick around and fill your days with some of the best things to do on the Amalfi Coast.

For an unparalleled experience, Caruso, A Belmond Hotel in Ravello offers panoramic views of the Amalfi Coast from its cliffside perch. The historic property, with its infinity pool and lush gardens, is a luxurious escape for gay travellers looking for romance and relaxation. Don’t miss the chance to explore the charming towns of Ravello and Amalfi, both brimming with artistic and cultural treasures.

Il San Pietro di Positano combines dramatic coastal beauty with high-end service. Carved into the cliffs, the hotel offers private beach access, a gourmet restaurant, and sweeping views of the Mediterranean. Its secluded setting makes it perfect for couples, and the nearby town of Positano provides plenty of shopping and dining opportunities, along with a discreet, welcoming atmosphere for LGBTQ+ visitors.

The stylish Borgo Santandrea blends mid-century modern design with traditional Italian elegance. Set on a private beach near Conca dei Marini, this boutique hotel is an ideal retreat for those who want both luxury and privacy. Explore the hidden gems of the Amalfi Coast, from ancient churches to local artisanal shops, before returning to the hotel’s tranquil surroundings.