Top 13 gay wedding destinations around the world Stories > Experiences > Top 13 gay wedding destinations around the world Casey SiemaskoAt long last, a growing number of countries are legalizing same-sex marriage—meaning there’s never been a better time for gay couples to think globally when planning their dream wedding day. As marriage equality continues to advance, the only question for your gay destination wedding becomes: tropical getaway or elegant cosmopolitan affair? No matter what your travel style, we’ve hand-selected the best gay wedding destinations around the world so you can do less planning and more travelling. Get started with these Mr Hudson recommendations for gorgeous gay wedding ideas around the world. Tailor Made JourneyLuxury Beyond ConventionAt Mr Hudson, we understand that true luxury lies in the freedom to explore the world exactly as you envision it. Our curated collection of exceptional properties and experiences speaks to those who seek refinement in every moment—whether discovering hidden gems in storied cities, unwinding at distinguished resorts, or sailing aboard elegant vessels. We celebrate the sophisticated traveler who appreciates understated elegance and meaningful discovery. Explore in luxury Ever progressive Buenos Aires is a gay mecca full of grandiose architecture, heavenly gastronomy, and sultry, queer tango parties1. Buenos AiresAs the first country in Latin America to establish marriage equality, Argentina is an obvious choice for gay weddings abroad. In particular, ever progressive Buenos Aires is a gay mecca full of grandiose architecture, heavenly (albeit meaty) gastronomy, and sultry, queer tango parties. Toast to the upcoming nuptials over a glass of velvety malbec—the local variety is inexpensive, abundant, and delectable. Chic neighbourhoods, riveting theatres, and upscale luxury hotels round out the gay cosmopolitan experience.Where to stay in Buenos AiresBuenos Aires is a city of rich culture, historic architecture, and vibrant nightlife, making it a top destination for luxury gay weddings. The Alvear Palace Hotel in Recoleta stands as a symbol of classic elegance with its French design, and is renowned for its impeccable service and luxurious rooms. It’s also conveniently located near some of the city’s best art galleries, museums, and the Recoleta Cemetery. Also in fashionable Recoleta, Sofitel Buenos Aires Recoleta provides an exquisite blend of contemporary luxury and French savoir-faire, with proximity to high-end boutiques, fine dining, and the city’s key cultural attractions. For a more intimate stay, Hotel Casa Lucia is a boutique option in Palermo, offering chic, design-forward interiors and personalised service, perfect for couples seeking a modern romantic escape. Hotel Casa Lucia2. IrelandFew gay wedding destinations in Europe exude romance quite like Ireland. A small island with big-time thrills, a drive across the country quickly reveals Ireland’s dramatic beauty—from its arresting coastline to its bucolic countryside to its charming candy-coloured towns. Add to the mix a fascinating history that’s left visible marks across the country in the form of ruins and castles, and you’ve got a treasure trove of delightfully dreamy experiences all in one spectacular setting. Ireland is renowned for its next-level hospitality towards tourists, and gay travellers are no exception. In 2015, Ireland became the first nation to legalize same-sex marriage by popular vote. Dublin, Belfast, and Cork are where you’ll discover the most lively Ireland gay travel scenes. Photo: Steije Hillewaert Where to stay in DublinDublin offers a mix of Georgian elegance and modern vibrancy, ideal for a chic gay wedding. Nestled in the city centre, The Merrion Hotel offers five-star opulence within a set of Georgian townhouses, with lush gardens and Michelin-star dining at Restaurant Patrick Guilbaud, perfect for couples seeking a sophisticated wedding setting. Dylan, Dublin’s chicest boutique hotel, is a blend of old-world charm and contemporary design, located in a quieter part of the city but within easy reach of the lively nightlife and culture of St. Stephen’s Green and Grafton Street. For a stay with a boutique edge, The Wilder is a beautifully restored Victorian townhouse, exuding charm and intimacy, ideal for couples looking to combine heritage with modern luxury. Dylan3. Cape TownAdventure lovers will be hard-pressed to find a gay wedding destination more ravishing than Cape Town. Did someone say cave diving with sharks followed by jumping from the world’s highest bungee? Flanked in natural wonders, with Table Mountain National Park to the North and powdery white sand beaches to the South, awe-inspiring landscapes seemingly await around every bend. Gay marriage is legal across South Africa, but Cape Town takes the prize as the gayest city in the country. Even better? A temperate climate means gay destination weddings in Cape Town are a fabulous idea year-round.Where to stay in Cape TownCape Town’s blend of natural beauty and cosmopolitan flair makes it a prime gay wedding destination. Mount Nelson, A Belmond Hotel, set at the foot of Table Mountain, offers timeless elegance and a serene atmosphere, with beautiful gardens and an on-site events team for bespoke wedding planning. For those wanting an ultra-luxurious experience, One&Only Cape Town provides opulent suites with breathtaking views of the marina and Table Mountain, plus renowned dining at Nobu and an exclusive wedding team to craft your perfect day. Alternatively, Cape Grace, located on the V&A Waterfront, offers classic luxury, a world-class spa, and a prime location near the city’s vibrant cultural and nightlife scene. Mount Nelson, a Belmond Hotel One&Only Cape Town4. Puerto VallartaDazzling cerulean waters, lush rolling hillsides, and a thrumming downtown gayborhood provide the backdrop to Mexico’s time-honoured gay beach capital: Puerto Vallarta. While it’s important to note that only civil unions are legal in Mexico, 12 states have legalized full marriage equality—including Puerto Vallarta’s state of Jalisco. Those inclined to say “I do” with their toes in the sand and the Pacific gently lapping behind them need not look further than the LGBTQ Almar Resort. An idyllic beachfront location and in-house wedding planner make it easy to see why this gay hotel regularly tops most lists of top 10 wedding destinations. Puerto Vallarta | Photo: Chris McqueenWhere to stay on the Riviera NayaritPuerto Vallarta’s Riviera Nayarit offers stunning Pacific views and the perfect setting for a beachside gay wedding. The Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit is a luxurious all-inclusive resort with sophisticated suites, world-class gourmet dining, and an expert wedding team to assist in planning your dream ceremony by the sea. For an eco-luxury experience, One&Only Mandarina provides exclusive, nature-immersed villas and treehouses along the coastline, blending design with nature, perfect for a romantic and unique wedding backdrop. One&Only Mandarina Destination wedding? The same team that brings you the content you love designs your perfect trip5. SpainSpain is one of the gayest, most gorgeous countries in the world. Widely regarded as a model nation for gay rights in Europe, Spain continues to promote equality with laws in place to protect same-sex marriage, adoption, and transgender rights. Just a short way from Barcelona, the romantic beach town of Sitges vies for the title of Spain’s most gay-friendly city. By day, soak up the sun on one of Sitges’ picturesque gay beaches; by night, hop from world-class restaurants to thought-provoking art galleries with your new spouse by your side. If you prefer an enchanting locale that’s not synonymous with sand and sea, any of these top gay destinations in Spain would make foolproof spots for a gay wedding abroad.Where to stay in BarcelonaBarcelona’s vibrant culture and stunning architecture make it an iconic wedding destination for the discerning gay traveller. The Mandarin Oriental, Barcelona is located on the Passeig de Gràcia, offering opulence and world-class service with Michelin-starred dining, just steps from Gaudí’s masterpieces. Wittmore Hotel, hidden in the Gothic Quarter, is a stylish adults-only boutique hotel, offering privacy and sophistication in one of the city’s most historic areas. Meanwhile, Serras Barcelona, located on the waterfront, blends modern luxury with a storied past, offering stunning views of the Mediterranean and a rooftop perfect for intimate celebrations. Mandarin Oriental, Barcelona6. Bora BoraThe quintessential image of paradise found this Tahitian gem is on every list of gay beach wedding destinations for a reason. Think mesmerizing starry night skies, dreamy overwater bungalows, sparkling turquoise waters, and kaleidoscopic marine life. Bora Bora is part of French Polynesia, so gay weddings have been legal here under French law since 2013. A bevvy of ultra-luxurious gay-friendly resorts means you’ll have no problem finding local talent to help construct the perfect day. And when it comes to gay honeymoon destinations? Well, you’ve already arrived at one of the sexiest. Bora Bora | Photo: Dave Shaw Bora Bora | Photo: ReiseuhuWhere to stay in Bora BoraFor a dreamy tropical gay wedding, Bora Bora is the ultimate destination. The Four Seasons Resort Bora Bora offers luxurious overwater bungalows with stunning views of Mount Otemanu and a dedicated wedding team to curate your perfect day in paradise. Equally opulent, The St. Regis Bora Bora Resort features expansive villas, personal butlers, and gourmet dining, ensuring your wedding is as seamless as it is unforgettable. Four Seasons Resort Bora Bora Wild and rugged with the lunar-like landscape, glittering glaciers, and turquoise geothermal waters, if ever there was a destination of jaw-dropping beauty, it’s Iceland7. IcelandWild and rugged with the lunar-like landscape, glittering glaciers, and turquoise geothermal waters, if ever there was a destination of jaw-dropping beauty, it’s Iceland. With an ever-changing terrain that is as extreme as it is spectacular, this Nordic wonderland is a smart gay wedding destination for those who want to marry to a backdrop of ice-covered volcanoes or cascading waterfalls. Gay travellers who choose to marry in Iceland will be in good company; Iceland same-sex marriage was legalized in 2010, shortly after which then Prime Minister Jóhanna Siguroardóttir married her partner.Where to stay in ReykjavikFor a wedding set against Iceland’s dramatic natural beauty, The Reykjavik EDITION is a design-forward luxury hotel in the city’s vibrant harbour district. Its sleek, modern aesthetic blends perfectly with Reykjavik’s cultural heart, offering easy access to local art galleries, museums, and the city’s famous nightlife. The hotel’s personalised service ensures an unforgettable experience for couples seeking to wed in this extraordinary location. The Reykjavik EDITION8. New OrleansGay New Orleans is, in one word, ravishing. Land of art, music, superstition, and Cajun spice, this loud and proud Southern city marches to the beat of its own drum—a testament to its unique French, Spanish, and Creole influences. With the sounds of jazz wafting through the air, New Orleans makes an ideal spot for an LGBTQ destination wedding in the otherwise mostly conservative South. The Lavender Line is the starting point of any gay New Orleans travel guide. You’ll find it in the insatiably fun French Quarter, where lavish hotels, cast-iron balconies, and traditional cuisine are bound to inspire the most fabulous gay wedding ideas. Photo: Keenan Barber Photo: Radek PestkaWhere to stay in New OrleansNew Orleans, with its rich culture and lively energy, is a romantic and fun destination for a gay wedding. Maison Metier offers a boutique experience, with a modern, stylish aesthetic right in the heart of the French Quarter. The Ritz-Carlton, New Orleans brings classic luxury to your stay, with elegant rooms and a stunning courtyard perfect for intimate weddings. The Windsor Court provides a stately setting with exceptional service, making it an excellent choice for couples looking for Southern charm with a touch of grandeur. Maison Metier9. BostonArguably America’s oldest city, Boston boasts a riveting history as a trailblazing revolutionary—one that would continue when Massauchessets became the first U.S. state to legalize gay marriage. And with charming gay Provincetown near at hand, the gay Boston scene makes an ideal spot for couples looking to combine an elegant city wedding with a romantic seaside rendezvous on the Cape. The Elliot Hotel is one of Boston’s most opulent settings for a gay Boston wedding; think Italian marble countertops, a Beaux-Arts-style entrance, and sumptuous suites.Where to stay in BostonBoston’s mix of historic charm and modern luxury makes it an ideal wedding destination. Raffles Boston, with its opulent rooms and refined service, offers the perfect setting for a sophisticated city wedding. Four Seasons Hotel One Dalton Street combines sleek design with unrivalled luxury, offering couples the chance to wed in a stunning contemporary setting, just steps from the city’s best museums and galleries. The Newbury Boston, recently restored to its former grandeur, offers classic elegance with views of the Public Garden, perfect for a stylish and unforgettable celebration. The Newbury10. ChicagoAt first glance, Chicago might not seem like the obvious choice to make a list of top gay wedding destinations around the world, but you’ll want to hear us out. With cutting-edge architecture, a swanky nightlife scene, world-class cuisine, and a buzzing LGBTQ+ community, gay Chicago is a surprisingly delightful spot to tie the knot. Lakeview (more commonly referred to as Boystown,) is the Windy City’s historic gay neighbourhood, though the most spectacular gay wedding venues in Chicago are over in the ritzy Gold Coast neighbourhood. Of the elegant locales here, The Thompson Hotel wows with its elevated mid-century design and a dual-level penthouse (ideal for the newlyweds to escape to.)Where to stay in ChicagoChicago’s diverse culture and striking skyline offer a vibrant backdrop for your wedding. The Viceroy Chicago, located in the trendy Gold Coast neighbourhood, blends historic charm with contemporary luxury, offering an ideal setting for intimate city weddings. Pendry Chicago brings sleek, modern design to the iconic Carbide & Carbon building, close to the Magnificent Mile’s shopping and dining. Park Hyatt Chicago offers a refined, art-filled atmosphere and stunning views of Lake Michigan, making it a chic option for a luxurious urban wedding. Viceroy Chicago Dubbed the world’s sexiest and best gay destination two years in a row, Rio de Janeiro is an alluring mix of sultry samba rhythms, lush mountainous scenery, and flawless golden sand beaches Rio de Janeiro | Photo: Agustin Diaz11. Rio de JaneiroDubbed the world’s sexiest and best gay destination two years in a row, Rio de Janeiro is an alluring mix of sultry samba rhythms, lush mountainous scenery, and flawless golden sand beaches. Plus, if you’ve ever glimpsed footage of the city’s legendary Carnival jubilees, then you already know that Rio is a city that knows how to throw a good party. The Marvelous City has no shortage of adventures to entertain your wedding guests. From hiking through lush, monkey-filled rainforests to sailing across the Guanabara Bay at sunset, gay Rio de Janeiro thrills with its brilliant blend of wild landscapes and cosmopolitan charm.Where to stay in Rio de JaneiroRio’s vibrant energy and stunning beaches create an unforgettable setting for a gay wedding. Copacabana Palace, A Belmond Hotel, is a Rio icon, offering old-world luxury with a glamorous beachfront location and an on-site events team to make your wedding dreams a reality. For a more contemporary vibe, Emiliano Rio offers sleek, minimalist design on Copacabana Beach, with personalised service and exceptional dining. Nestled in the bohemian district of Santa Teresa, Santa Teresa Hotel RJ provides a lush, tropical retreat with a colonial feel, perfect for a romantic and relaxed celebration. Emiliano Rio12. San FranciscoAh, San Francisco. Ever flamboyant with her forward-thinking, queer-leaning ways—and iconic for her legislation on gay freedoms, including being the first U.S. city to legalize gay marriage. We can hardly think of a more enigmatic, rainbow-lined city to raise a glass to a lifetime alongside your special someone. San Francisco gay wedding destinations don’t get more glam than The Cliff House with its floor-to-ceiling glass windows that reveal striking Pacific Ocean views. Or, for the oenophiles among us, hop over to a nearby vineyard for rolling hills and magical views all within easy access to the highlights of gay San Francisco.Where to stay in San FranciscoSan Francisco’s iconic skyline and cultural vibrancy make it a dream destination for gay weddings. Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco provides understated luxury and a prime location near Union Square’s shopping and theatre district. The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco offers a timeless, elegant setting in Nob Hill, with beautifully appointed rooms and event spaces for an unforgettable celebration. The St. Regis San Francisco combines modern design with impeccable service, ensuring your wedding is nothing short of spectacular. Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco13. Las VegasIt’s hardly any secret that anything goes in fabulous Las Vegas. While other couples are fretting over registering, so their guests know precisely what to buy a gay couple for their wedding, getting married in Las Vegas means an epic celebration that swaps the typical wedding stress for dazzling decadence—and hopefully a sprinkle of debauchery. With everything from infinity rooftop pools to one-of-a-kind helicopter weddings, narrowing down the top 10 places to get married in Las Vegas will likely be your most challenging task. Yet again, that’s all part of the allure of planning a gay wedding to the inimitable, neon-swathed city that is Las Vegas. Photo: Marcelo Chagas Photo: LantyWhere to stay in Las VegasLas Vegas offers a unique blend of glamour and excitement for a truly memorable gay wedding. Four Seasons Hotel Las Vegas, with its non-gaming atmosphere and luxurious tranquillity, is perfect for couples seeking a sophisticated setting. For those who prefer something more vibrant, The Cosmopolitan of Las Vegas boasts bold, contemporary design and a plethora of world-class dining and nightlife options. Bellagio remains an iconic choice, with its stunning fountains, elegant rooms, and exceptional event spaces for a wedding infused with classic Vegas style. Four Seasons Hotel Las VegasWant to simplify luxury travel planning?Whether you want a resort vacation, wildlife safari, city break, luxury cruise, wellness retreat, honeymoon, once-in-a-lifetime adventure or weekend escape, the trip curation experts at Mr Hudson make travel planning a breeze. Find out how we can handle the finer details of vacationing in style.Special SelectionExclusive Mr Hudson offersOut now from gestaltenMr Hudson Explores Browse the Bookshare Photo: Alvin Mahmudov Photo: Tikkho Maciel Spain | Photo: Patrick Baum Photo: Ben Rosett Photo: Sweet Ice Cream Photography Photo: Christian BuehnerDid you enjoy this article? 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